Author Topic: Why do men consider virgins to be hot?  (Read 3757 times)

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October 28, 2014, 04:01:35 AM

Offline Ayla

Ok.. some men, not all men :)
As a woman, taking a guy's virginity.... not so hot! But the other way around, it's a whole different story!
Why do some men consider the idea of taking someone's virginity so hot?

October 28, 2014, 05:42:13 AM
Reply #1

Offline Zodiac

I can't speak for every guy, but it's like being the first to pitch your tent on the peak of  a mountain. Most guys like the idea of being a girls first and deflowering her. They may not necessarily be the best sex ever, in terms of experience and everything, but breaking a girl in for the first time is a huge turn on for a lot of guys.

October 28, 2014, 10:13:56 AM
Reply #2

Offline Fancy

When I was in college I remember virgins were a big deal for the guys.  Never really got it though I mean wouldn't the sex be better with someone with some experience??  My first time wasn't good at all.  But I guess what Zodiac says makes sense.  That sounds like the way guys would think. 

October 28, 2014, 09:17:50 PM
Reply #3

Offline Jed

I wouldn't know.  I was never a girl's first.  I had a couple that had only been with one other guy.  I didn't mind never having a virgin and don't feel like I was left out.

For a story, I do think it's hot the girl is an innocent virgin who then gets defiled.  Anyone reading my stuff would figure that out.  I don't use underage girls in stories, because I have a thing for underage in particular.  I just like the idea of innocence taken.  If you describe a girl as an innocent virgin and hot, it's not realistic to make them 25 or 30.  We guys would never let that fruit get unpicked for so long, and no girl has that much resistance to us.

October 29, 2014, 05:59:54 AM
Reply #4

Offline santino

It's a mindset of most men as you are claiming a domain. And it's really exciting to be the first to enter someone it just gives you a kind of thrill.

October 29, 2014, 12:35:14 PM
Reply #5

Offline sweetness

Yea well l was a virgin at one time

October 29, 2014, 01:09:40 PM
Reply #6

Offline Dark

There is just something bout being the first.  I've been with two virgins and no Sweetness was not one of them. lol

October 29, 2014, 07:15:38 PM
Reply #7

Offline Plaything

Hey @Sweetness, I was a virgin at one time too . . .haha

October 29, 2014, 08:04:30 PM
Reply #8

Offline Zodiac

And also if the girl is very particular and isn't just throwing it away the first time she gets, it's kind of an honour to be "that guy"  I remember a girl in high school I had the biggest crush on and word came that she was a virgin even though she was that amazingly beautiful she could have easily lost it by then. She went through about two boyfriends in the space of six months and neither had managed to be lucky enough. She was very much about saving herself. Never got the chance as I ended up in the "friendzone" as it were. Still, she held out and I'm sure the guy she did end up giving her virginity to was quite happy about it. I would have been.

October 29, 2014, 08:44:52 PM
Reply #9

Offline Plaything

I could have had sex way before I actually did, several guys tried and I said no.  I really liked the guy that was my first, but I wish I had waited.  We're still friends, he's actually married to a good friend of mine, but if I had it to do over I would wait for my one true love!

October 29, 2014, 09:35:59 PM
Reply #10

Offline Jed

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Hey @Sweetness, I was a virgin at one time too . . .haha

A couple of genuine former virgins.....I heard that in a movie once and thought it funny.

You gotta say it 'gen....you....wine' former virgins.

October 29, 2014, 10:09:57 PM
Reply #11

Offline Plaything

Yep that's right . . . I was a gen . . .you . . .whine' virgin at one time . . .

October 30, 2014, 03:53:09 AM
Reply #12

Offline santino

The funny thing is i was virgin that time with a virgin too.. So when i am doing it on a virgin now it is exciting. But truly not always the best sex.

November 01, 2014, 08:23:49 AM
Reply #13

Offline Rancid

I think is has something to do with all that purity crap churches and religion in general promotes.  Of course, as men age, their taste should change. For example I'm 26 now, the gape between me and potential virgins tends to become wider every year, until at one point it will become just damn creepy.

November 03, 2014, 10:58:55 PM
Reply #14

Offline Plaything

Yeah, the older you get the harder it is to find virgins that aren't really young for you . . .

November 29, 2014, 05:20:40 PM
Reply #15

Offline Scooter

Never been with a virgin. The virgin fantasy for me involves innocence and purity of course. The thought that she would be tight. There's a lot of subconscious thoughts there. Ultimately, I know that I don't need to find a virgin for a tight fit. And as all of us here would agree, there's no substitute for that wild animal sex with an experienced woman.

November 30, 2014, 09:10:56 AM
Reply #16

Offline Plaything

Mmmm . . .wild animal sex . . .

November 30, 2014, 11:43:56 AM
Reply #17

Offline Dark

Sex with someone more experienced is more enjoyable because they know how to please too and it makes it better, imho. anyhow.  But l wouldn't say no to a virgin but at my age that is kinda scary.