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October 15, 2014, 04:29:52 AM

Offline Ayla

When I broke up (a few years ago) with my long term boyfriend at the time, I kind of found myself a sex buddy. And, man was it hot! No strings attached, just sex whenever and wherever!

I only told my closest friends about him, didn't want the whole world to comment on my sex life. Although, to be honest, he was the best thing that could have happened to me, since I was single and didn't want anything else but sex!

Who else has had a sex buddy? :)

October 15, 2014, 02:45:38 PM
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Offline Fancy

I don't have a sex buddy but I need one and I want one.  How does one go about finding a sex buddy??  Any suggestions??  LMAO 

October 15, 2014, 05:46:24 PM
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Offline sweetness

Sex buddies are the best

October 15, 2014, 08:42:40 PM
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Offline santino

I have a lot on my list for sex buddies. I can have sex whenever wherever i want. Lol. I even had this one married babe and she always ask if i'm available. It's just wild to have sex without strings attach it brings out the cave instincts among us.

October 15, 2014, 10:42:51 PM
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Offline Jed

We use to call it visiting privileges.  Ex GFs you could give a call to once in a while.  It did usually involve taking them out too, but not always.  One girl would complain about it, that I never took her home until the next morning, but she still wanted to go out if I called knowing what was going to happen.

October 15, 2014, 10:55:06 PM
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Offline santino

I do also have this girl that never wanted to be formally called a girlfriend but she always come when i give her a call knowing what will happen. And i think she enjoys the fact that she can have sex without the responsibility of a relationship. But i still treat her nicely as i could. She is really nice and beautiful.

October 26, 2014, 05:32:42 AM
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Offline Zodiac

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When I broke up (a few years ago) with my long term boyfriend at the time, I kind of found myself a sex buddy. And, man was it hot! No strings attached, just sex whenever and wherever!

I only told my closest friends about him, didn't want the whole world to comment on my sex life. Although, to be honest, he was the best thing that could have happened to me, since I was single and didn't want anything else but sex!

Who else has had a sex buddy? :)

I knew a chick who I had a similar thing going on with. At the time I wasn't interested in a relationship and neither was she. We came upon an agreement where we'd call up one another and arrange a night to get together. It went on for quite a while actually and was great for the most part. Then the worst thing that could have happened did, She ended up pregnant. Things changed a lot after that.

Still, we both got careless and things like that happen sometimes. Never really bothered with sex buddies since then but, there's definitely a hot/alluring feel about that kind of relationship with another person.

October 27, 2014, 04:06:40 AM
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Offline Ayla

^ oh, I'm so sorry :| Well, sex buddies are AWESOME, but yeah, you got to be careful about it!

in any case, it's better to have a sex buddy than have one night stands with strangers, IMO :)

October 27, 2014, 07:58:33 PM
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Offline Plaything

Yeah I would think a sex buddy would be much better than a one night stand . . .

November 01, 2014, 08:32:14 AM
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Offline Rancid

I has a similar experience in my teens...problem was, she was my best friend's girlfriend. Damn.

November 01, 2014, 12:42:11 PM
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Offline sweetness

I don't see the problem

November 01, 2014, 06:47:30 PM
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Offline Rancid

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I don't see the problem

Well. It was kind of awkward when I finally told him.

November 01, 2014, 09:53:46 PM
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Offline Plaything

Yeah, I'd say that would have been just a little awkward . . .and I'd bet he wasn't too happy with you or her.

November 02, 2014, 12:55:16 PM
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Offline Rancid

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Yeah, I'd say that would have been just a little awkward . . .and I'd bet he wasn't too happy with you or her.

He was actually very understanding. He already told me his relationship was going bad even before I started what I started. When I finally told him they had somehow broken off already.
I excepted at least one good punch straight in the face but he was very bro-like. We had a couple of beers and called it a night.

November 02, 2014, 06:39:52 PM
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Offline Fancy

So did it continue for you and her or did you end things to??

December 05, 2014, 08:50:36 AM
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Offline Plaything

What exactly are the rules for a sex buddy relationship?

December 05, 2014, 09:58:28 PM
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Offline Fancy

Oh good question!!!  I'd love to hear some thoughts on this.

December 05, 2014, 10:32:10 PM
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Offline Scooter

My wife and I had the same sex buddy 14 years ago, before we were together. She put the two of us together. We still have her over sometimes.

December 05, 2014, 10:39:09 PM
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Offline Scooter

I guess you could say that we had an arranged marriage.

December 05, 2014, 10:49:17 PM
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Offline roselynngrace

Well I thinks one big ones is Respect Boundaries and Set the Boundaries first that just my insight