Author Topic: Domination and Submission . . .  (Read 5998 times)

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November 05, 2014, 09:23:49 PM

Offline Plaything

Just curious . . .do you consider yourself to be more dominate or submissive?  I'm very submissive when it comes to sex . . .

November 05, 2014, 11:10:23 PM
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Offline Fancy

I would consider myself to be submissive.

November 06, 2014, 02:31:24 PM
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Offline sweetness

I think l am both sometimes l like to be the dominate one but sometimes l like to be submissive so both fit me

November 25, 2014, 12:37:08 AM
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Offline Plaything

l'd probably scare the cap out of my Deputy if l tried to get dominate with him . . .haha. He's definitely an alpha male.

November 25, 2014, 10:21:13 AM
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Offline Dark

He's like me he wants his woman to know her place at all times.  In the bedroom it's on her back with her legs spread waiting for me.

November 25, 2014, 11:58:29 AM
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Offline sweetness

Omg you did not go there

November 25, 2014, 01:42:45 PM
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Offline Tony V.

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My Wife and I usually change Roles. Sometimes she's Dominant, sometimes I am. There are times though, I'll simply come home, tear her clothes off, and take her where she stands....

That worked great until one night several years ago when My Sister In Law was staying the night......


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November 26, 2014, 11:45:04 AM
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Offline Dark

Ok let me put it like this l like my women on their backs legs spread waiting for me

November 26, 2014, 05:29:09 PM
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Offline sweetness


November 27, 2014, 06:07:35 PM
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Offline Dark

Stop acting like a bad ass sweetness we both know you can't wait to see me

November 28, 2014, 10:29:13 AM
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Offline Jed

I'm dominant, but I don't mind taking most requests.  There's very little I wouldn't do to please a partner, but some things aren't going to work for me.

Examples:

Girl:  "Will you tie me up?"
Me:  "Sure" *ties you up*

Girl:  "Can I tie you up?"
Me:  "No" *ties you up again*

November 28, 2014, 12:40:45 PM
Reply #11

Offline Dark

I tend to agree with you Jed, not much l wouldn't do to please a partner but got to draw the line when it comes to tying me up.

December 04, 2014, 02:56:52 PM
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Offline Fancy

LMAO!!!!  You guys are so funny.  Are you really afraid of what would happen if a girl tied you up??  I mean I guess there are some scary girls out there but I would think they would just want to tease you and get you off not hurt you. 

December 05, 2014, 01:24:30 AM
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Offline Jed

It's really just a mindset Fancy.  The thought of tying a girl up turns me on.  The thought of being tied up does not.  The thought of a girl turned on by being tied up is a turn on for me.  A girl who wants to tie me up is not a turn on for me.  I'm the sexual aggressor in all my fantasies and in real life, and I seem to have always gravitated to submissive women.

I think in some cases guys do have a trust issue.  'Uh, you're going to tie me up then your real boy friend shows up and you rob me or sell my organs on eBay.'  I certainly trusted any long term girl I had, but then none of them ever asked to tie me up, while several did ask that I tie them up.

You know now that I give it more thought, I'm not sure I would have refused that if I was really into the girl, but like I said, I always went after very submissive girls.  Hey Plaything, want to tie me up?

December 05, 2014, 04:34:37 AM
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Offline Jed


December 05, 2014, 09:19:04 AM
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Offline Plaything


December 05, 2014, 10:01:21 PM
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Offline Fancy


December 05, 2014, 11:11:30 PM
Reply #17

Offline vile8r

Dominance and Submission, hmmm. A great song by Blue Oyster Cult.

December 06, 2014, 11:06:43 PM
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Offline Plaything

The only song I've ever heard of by Blue Oyster Cult was 'Don't Fear The Reaper' . . .

December 13, 2014, 08:59:57 PM
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Offline Fancy

I am definitely a sub both in and out of the bedroom I think.