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October 21, 2014, 05:41:30 AM

Offline Ayla

This is a question addressed especially to the girls here: do you always cum?

I don't often speak about this with my friends (they are such prudes sometimes  ::) ), but I do remember one of my girl friends telling me one day she doesn't always cum when in bed with her husband. But that she enjoys sex.

This is just... illegal :) I have never in my life had sex without having an orgasm. And even if the guy finishes first, he should at least have the courtesy to finish you as well. Don't you think?

October 21, 2014, 01:43:28 PM
Reply #1

Offline Fancy

Unfortunately there have been plenty of times when he came and I didn't and sadly I didn't even care.

October 21, 2014, 10:16:30 PM
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Offline Plaything

Yes, I usually always cum . . .it would have to be really bad sex if I didn't cum . . .

October 21, 2014, 11:04:57 PM
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Offline Jed

When I was younger and with someone brand new, I didn't always cum......but I also didn't give up easily.  This worked out fine for them, since I didn't stop until they made me well after they were done.  As long as we got together again, I was fine the second time and did cum.

October 22, 2014, 10:20:55 AM
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Offline Fancy

JED, JED, JED, this was a question for us girls!!!!!!

October 22, 2014, 09:56:22 PM
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Offline Jed

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JED, JED, JED, this was a question for us girls!!!!!!

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This is a question addressed especially to the girls here: do you always cum?


Naw huh!

She said 'especially' not exclusively.

October 23, 2014, 05:08:03 AM
Reply #6

Offline Ayla

That's true :P Jed wins this time :D heheh

Although, I have to say, a man not reaching an orgasm is something I did not hear about before! Interesting...

October 23, 2014, 07:55:23 PM
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Offline Fancy

Yay!!!!  You win this time Jed and I've never known of a guy not cumming either.

October 23, 2014, 10:01:02 PM
Reply #8

Offline Jed

Not sure I won anything, except maybe a prize for staying hard a long long time.

October 24, 2014, 07:40:10 AM
Reply #9

Offline Rancid

Sometimes you don't have the time or you aren't in the mood to go all the way.

I usually let my fiance cum first, but sometimes, after all that effort, I'm to tired to put on a condom and cum myself. It rarely happens but it sometime does and this coming from a guy.

October 24, 2014, 02:16:54 PM
Reply #10

Offline sweetness

I'm starting to think l need to work on some self control

October 24, 2014, 08:47:34 PM
Reply #11

Offline Fancy

I was thinking the exact same thing, Sweetness needs to work on self control.   ;D

October 25, 2014, 03:26:34 AM
Reply #12

Offline Ayla

@Rancid... I have never heard of such a thing, a guy not being in the mood to cum or to put on a condom.... I believe you, but somehow I can't help but wonder, does the girl have anything to do with it? I would feel offended if I wasn't "good enough" in bed to make my partner want to finish..

October 25, 2014, 09:22:25 AM
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Offline Jed

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I was thinking the exact same thing, Sweetness needs to work on self control.   ;D

Now that's funny!

October 25, 2014, 09:30:51 AM
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Offline Plaything

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@Rancid... I have never heard of such a thing, a guy not being in the mood to cum or to put on a condom.... I believe you, but somehow I can't help but wonder, does the girl have anything to do with it? I would feel offended if I wasn't "good enough" in bed to make my partner want to finish..

I'm with Ayla . . .what's up with this?  Is it the girl or are you just stressing and have other things on our mind?

October 25, 2014, 09:35:37 AM
Reply #15

Offline Jed

Well, I can't imagine that happening with you my dear.

October 25, 2014, 01:38:40 PM
Reply #16

Offline Fancy

Well I think as a girl if I was with a guy and he didn't get off I would be concerned.  I think I'd think I just didn't do it for him or that I was rally bad in bed.  That would be a horrible feeling don't you think??

October 26, 2014, 05:42:28 AM
Reply #17

Offline Ayla

Exactly! Horrible... it would make me feel less of a woman. And yes, you guys, even women have their pride in bed :D Trust me on this one :P

October 26, 2014, 11:02:11 AM
Reply #18

Offline Jed

Such things come with experience, although a great deal of it is instinctual as well.

In those clumsy early day of your first sex, it's unlikely anyone is any good, but then you don't really know what good is then.  For a girl, just being willing was enough for us guys.  You could lay there like a sack of cement, and we'd be fine with that.  And for us guys, we're just so surprised we're actually fucking that anything resembling technique isn't happening.

I often think it would be best if someone older introduced us to sex in those days, but many people were young enough when they first had sex, that it would have been illegal for an older person to have been there.

Certainly some girls are just so responsive, they can't help but be good.

In other areas such as oral, learning and technique are more important.

October 26, 2014, 11:33:57 AM
Reply #19

Offline sweetness

Oral does take practice and desire but other things hopefully come naturally