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October 06, 2014, 04:43:28 AM
Reply #20

Offline Jed

I like the hair too.  Sometimes when it's in a ponytail it makes a nice handle to hold on to.

October 06, 2014, 04:34:31 PM
Reply #21

Offline sweetness

I like it that way to hand in my hair oh yeah

October 06, 2014, 06:18:56 PM
Reply #22

Offline Fancy

I guess I am going to try and change my attitude on sucking cock.  I  will be researching this for more info and I'll keep you posted on what I find out, try and decide.  Stay tuned this is my new project for the month.

October 07, 2014, 01:20:51 PM
Reply #23

Offline sweetness

You can check out some blow job porn that should give you some ideals

October 07, 2014, 08:41:41 PM
Reply #24

Offline Jed

Yeah, sometimes it's like watching a magic act the way they disappear.

October 07, 2014, 08:47:14 PM
Reply #25

Offline Plaything

Just buy yourself a nice big dildo and you can practice . . .that's the best way to learn and get better . . .

October 07, 2014, 08:51:55 PM
Reply #26

Offline Jed

I certainly use that concept in stories.....'suppressing the gag reflex'.

I have heard there are oral lubricants.  I need to research that.

October 07, 2014, 09:46:20 PM
Reply #27

Offline Plaything

Spit and drool are the best lubes when sucking cock . . .I know there are some out there but I think they taste really funky . . .a cherry flavored cock . . .haha I don't think so . . .

October 07, 2014, 09:55:02 PM
Reply #28

Offline Jed

That's so funny, I was wondering if they had cherry flavor!

October 08, 2014, 04:53:53 PM
Reply #29

Offline sweetness

I'm with Playthang who wants to suck on cherry flavored cock reminds me to much of cough syrup hate all those flavor things

October 08, 2014, 10:56:49 PM
Reply #30

Offline Fancy

I might have to agree with you and Playthang LMAO  I don't think I would like the cherry flavored cock either

October 09, 2014, 09:37:23 AM
Reply #31

Offline Plaything

Here are some tips for giving a great blow job, hope this helps in your research!  ;)

How to give a blow job:

As a rule, oral sex should mimic the movements of full sex penetration and while it's called a blow job - there's no blowing involved! Don't make that rookie mistake!

Instead, blow like a pro and take his penis into your mouth, (with plenty of saliva) and suck up and down his shaft mimicking the thrusting motion of penetration, taking care not to graze his 'friend' with your teeth. Remember when it comes to sucking him off, teeth are never welcome.

One thing men donít like is mechanical oral sex, performed without passion. He wants to know that you're enjoying it as much as him, so vary your rhythm, speed and intensity. Try gently caressing his testicles and then try upping the pace for a few strokes. Take him to the edge then bring him back from the brink to get him revved up and eager for more.

Lick, suck and play with his erect penis using your tongue don't be shy to make eye contact too. To make sure youíre hitting the spot, watch and listen to his reactions. Ask him what he likes. All men are different and he'll be thrilled that you want to know exactly how to please him.

Giving good head isn't rocket science, but there are some top tips, tried and tested, that will help make your next blow job one to remember. Read on for the secrets on how to be a 'head' mistress. Oh yeah.

Oral sex tip #1: Sensitive areas
To make him go weak at the knees, when giving him a blow job linger on the parts of his anatomy that are particularly sensitive - the tip of his penis, his testicles and his perineum - the secret spot between the testicles and the anus.
Heíll also appreciate lots of attention around the shaft whether you use your mouth, tongue or hands, some good shaft action will get him closer to blowing his load.

Oral sex tip #2: Use your hands
If your partner's penis is on the large side you may find it more than a mouthful. Blow jobs can be difficult to perform on bigger penises but don't worry - you're not expected to be able to take it all the way down.
A simple trick to blow job success is to use your hand and your mouth together - which will feel good for any size of penis.
Use an edible lubricant or your saliva to get things going moving and move your hand from the shaft (bottom) to the tip until he's really hard. Then add your mouth, taking him in as your hand moves up and down.

Oral sex tip #3: Involving other areas
Oral sex is about using your mouth to maximum effect, on his penis, and other areas too.
Try gently (very gently!) sucking on his testicles one at a time. Lightly kiss his inner thighs. Lick his super sensitive perineum (along the line between his anus and testicles). All added together he'll be totally under your control - a total turn on for you too!

Oral sex tip #4: Hot and cold
Blow jobs and oral sex should be fun so if you want to spice it up try playing with temperature and sensations.
Temperature play can be fun, so try taking a mouthful of warm tea, swill it around your mouth and swallow then take your man's penis into your mouth for 20 seconds and suck. Then take a mouth full of cold water and do the same. The difference in hot and cold will feel fabulous for him.
You can also try champagne, fizzy water, mint, ice cubes and ice cream for extra unexpected sensations.

Oral sex tip #5: Get saucy
Some women can't bare the taste of their man in their mouths which makes oral sex rather less enjoyable.
While performing a blow job you can add chocolate body paint, squirty cream or ice cream then spend time licking and sucking it off, or try a flavoured lubricant - Durex has a good selection.

Oral sex tip #6: Gagging
Gagging during oral sex isn't something to be embarrassed about. He'll think you're gagging because he's so massive and if you actually tell him that then you'll give him one enormous ego boost that he'll love you for.
If you find yourself gagging often then try using your hands as well - see oral sex tip 2!

Oral sex tip #7: Ejaculation
When he starts to come, there's the question of whether to swallow or not. You donít have to: each to their own.
If you find the thought of sperm in your mouth revolting, donít force yourself to swallow: it wonít make it any less pleasurable for him. Just make sure he withdraws in time.
Otherwise let him come in your mouth and then spit it out. Have tissues on hand to either spit into or mop up any spillage.
Some men like to come onto breasts, bellies or other parts of their partner but make sure you've agreed to this first - it's entirely your choice.
Of course you can swallow too - which brings us onto the subject of taste...

Oral sex tip #8: Ejaculation - improving the taste
Some foods and drinks do have an effect on the taste of your guys load.
Alcohol, caffeine, recreational drugs and nicotine all add a tang to your man's semen and make it taste like a bad night out. The day after a binge it's probably best to avoid blow jobs altogether!
Vegetarians have better tasting sperm but too much cauliflower, broccoli and asparagus can have a seriously negative impact - so get your guy to limit these foods if you're planning to swallow after an oral sex session.
Some foods to avoid are obvious - garlic and onions make our breath smell - and add a funky taste to our guy's semen too thanks to their high sulphur content.
If you want to sweeten his spunk try getting your man to eat plenty of fruits that are high in natural sugars - pineapple juice is a winner. Also sweet and fragrant foods and herbs like parsley, wheatgrass, celery, cinnamon, cardamom, peppermint and lemon can all make for a sweet oral sex session.

Oral sex tip #9: Overcoming reservations
Some women are repulsed by oral sex and blow jobs and donít like the idea of putting their partnerís penis in their mouth, it's not for everyone - the idea is to both get turned on from the experience.
If it makes you feel more up for it try having a shower together as part of foreplay so that you can nice and clean before you get dirty.
If you still donít feel comfortable with giving oral sex, remember thereís no point forcing yourself: heíll feel it if youíre not happy and wonít get as much pleasure out of it.
The goal is shared pleasure and excitement. Talk to him about it and you might find you change your mind in time. Blow jobs should be a pleasure for both of you, knowing you're turning him on is a turn on in itself.

October 09, 2014, 05:32:48 PM
Reply #32

Offline Fancy

I blushed just reading that.  'Head' Mistress indeed!!!  I guess that is my new goal.  I want to be a 'Head' Mistress LMAO

October 12, 2014, 12:22:17 PM
Reply #33

Offline Jed

'Head' mistress.....well, I like that.

Of course if you think you need more practice before that title can be bestowed, I don't think that will be an issue either.  Holding the guy's cock tell him, "I want to get really good at this, so I hope you don't mind if I practice often?"  I'm certainly he will be willing to allow you to practice as often as you want.

October 12, 2014, 03:46:57 PM
Reply #34

Offline Plaything

Yeah, I have never had a guy say he didn't want a blow job . . .don't think that would ever be a problem . . .my Deputy definitely enjoys having his cock sucked down my throat . . .and he loves hearing me gag on him . . .

October 12, 2014, 11:00:02 PM
Reply #35

Offline Fancy

OK that could be just a little tooooooooooo much info there Plaything.  LMAO 

I do agree that I don't think most guys would say no to a blow job though.

October 13, 2014, 11:30:23 PM
Reply #36

Offline Swagawa

I've never told anyone to stop. :P
Had a few toothy ones before, but it still feels pretty darn good.

October 14, 2014, 05:12:11 AM
Reply #37

Offline santino

Just a small tip from us guys.. Never over do the licking. Well its nice to get licked from every angle to the balls but the basic sucking of the head and the up and down motion with a little bit of mix of slow and and fast is something that i prefer the most. I had this new girl a week ago and she just loves to lick which is fine as like jed said you can't say stop while my dick is inside your mouth. A little self improvement as you are already doing it would be greatly appreciated by your partner. Its never bad to be a bit better at somethings.. ;D

October 14, 2014, 06:36:55 PM
Reply #38

Offline Plaything

Nice to have a little input from a guy on this topic.

October 27, 2014, 05:06:23 AM
Reply #39

Offline Ayla

OMG! Thanks for the tips!! Especially the one regarding the taste...
I'm sure it's impossible to make his spunk taste like chocolate :D but yeah, some improvement can't hurt :D