Yep, a control freak girl who has lost complete control to a strong man.

It's hardly non-consensual if you want the guy to tie you up.  It's not usually a first time activity, but once people get comfortable with each other, it can be brought up by either person.

I mentioned before it was a girl that first suggested it to me, but then I was 25 at the time and she was 32.  It seems when she was in her 20's some older guy got her into it.  After that, I was the older guy getting the younger girl into it.

Fancy, you start seeing a new guy and it becomes intimate.  Just casually mention you sometimes have a fantasy about being tied up.

Are you saying there is a 3 date rule before you can get tied up

It did sound like that didn't it?  That occurred to me when I was writing.

And no, it's 3 dates until you fuck, and 3 fucks until you get tied up.....LOL

Ok now we all know the get tied up rule thanks for sharing that with us all

Well if you tied up on a first date, be sure and tell him it's against the rules.....

Well, let's call them guidelines.  I think I started by telling FancyFace she might be on safe ground telling a guy she had started being intimate with, that she has fantasies about being tied up.  She might not have been comfortable bringing that up the very first night in bed together.

And if she really wants to have that fantasy become real in some way, it's best to bring it up early by saying something like, "I read a story where the guy tied a girl up during sex, and it seemed kind of hot."  Then she could wait and see what he said.

He might say, "Not sure I'd be into that" or "Yeah, that does sound hot."  Anyway, the topic has been breached with the second attitude making it open for discussion.

Lmao the thought of that just made me laugh so hard

I think I want to be the one that gets tied up and forced to do things.

Hmmmm....mental note to self: Visit Fancy's house on Halloween!